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Couples Therapy in Los Angeles

Our relationship is growing and evolving through predictable developmental stages. Each stage has its challenges to overcome and rewards to attain. Couples therapy can help us learn to move with grace through the stages of love, and create the harmoneous connection we desire.

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Premarital Counseling

Marriage is one of the most important decisions we make in our life. The key to a life filled with love, connection, growth and fulfillment is to step into the commitment of marriage well-prepared. Premarital counseling offers the tools for the marital happiness.

Every one of us has had days when just the thought of getting out of bed felt unbearable and the Los Angeles sunny blue skies peeking into our bedroom felt dull and grey. When these days become frequent, it is time to get help to restore the color and vitality in our life.

Coming out is a process of reclaiming our full power and stepping into the fullness of who we truly are. It can be overwhelming and anxiety provoking, however, guidance and support on this journey of self-discovery makes a big difference.

Anxiety and worry is a common experience in our world of data overload and an ever-increasing pace of life. Learning to process stress and change anxiety-inducing thoughts to ones that create a sense of centeredness and confidence is a skill that can be learned and mastered.

When the past has a hold on us and our joy is tainted by the old wounds, we can make a choice to heal. Trauma therapy is here to help you process and release the traumatic events. You can reclaim your power, your life and your joy.

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Dr. Harel Papikian

Psychologist, PsyD

Having lived in multiple countries and cultures around the globe, Dr. Harel dedicated his life to understanding human experience, nature of love and nuances of intimate relationships. His work includes helping singles of all backgrounds and couples of all configurations. Last 15+ years of clinical work and ongoing exploration led Dr. Harel to develop the ARM Method - a psychotherapy approach that incorporates the most effective tools and strategies of healing, growth and change. The ARM Method demonstrated powerful results for clients focused on improving their relationship, healing from trauma, overcoming depression and relieving anxiety.

Dr. Harel is truly remarkable! The most productive work I’ve done with any therapist. Grateful for his approach and expertise. So much clarity after each session. Easy to communicate and schedule appointments with. Highly recommend!! Thank you Dr. Harel for everything!
Tetiana Kyryienko
05:37 09 Dec 24
Dr.Harel is the best! I am participating in his Soul to Soulmate program and it’s life changing!!!Thank you so much for all you are doing !!!
Tanya Lishchenko
05:48 03 Nov 24
Dima Korniychuk
22:53 13 Sep 24
I can’t recommend Dr. Harel enough. He made me feel truly heard and understood. He helped me gain new perspectives and make real progress in my personal growth and overall wellbeing. Dr. Harel is compassionate, skilled, and genuinely invested in helping me navigate life’s challenges. Deeply thankful.
guillermo fornillo
05:43 14 Aug 24
The professionalism of Dr. Harel helped me to navigate challenging situations related to myself and my relationship, He made me realized that communication is the key that can open doors of understanding and loveI highly recommend his sessions, pure gold !Thank you so so muchGuillermo
Steven Binns, Jr.
00:20 06 Aug 24
Dr. Harel is an insightful, attentive therapist who has the experience and wisdom to provide exceptional care. Trust, patience and competence are some of the top virtues he possesses. I can say with confidence he is the right therapist for you.
Gilberto Correa
22:09 28 Jul 24
Dr. Harel has really helped me navigate through the “constantly changing waters” of a relationship turning every crisis into a growth opportunity. I am always learning about me, my relationship and my partner. A great psychotherapist and relationship coach which I recommend without hesitation.
David Bagdasaryan
05:22 23 Jul 24
Dr. Harel’s guidance and expertise were exactly what I needed to find healing and growth. For anyone in Los Angeles needing couples therapy or relationship coaching, Dr. Harel is the ideal choice.
irina rudenko
20:37 14 Jul 24
I reached out to Dr. Harel during significant challenges in my life. His support, guidance and skill were what I needed to heal and grow. Anyone who is looking for a couples therapy or relationship coaching in Los Angeles - he is your guy.
Oleksandryna Denysenko
20:37 14 Jul 24
Dr. Harel is an exceptional coach and couple therapist. During our conversations he guided me in developing strategies for progress in both my personal life and my relationships. He met me with empathy and understanding, highlighting areas for improvement and offering processes and tools for me to reach my goals. It has been transformational. He is the best!
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Our Unique Approach to Couples Therapy

1 - Awareness

  • What brings you in?
  • What does the relationship look like right now?
  • What would you like instead? 
  • What is the important history for us to consider:
    • History of this relationship
    • Personal childhood history and past relationships

2 – Release

We will release the personal baggage of unresolved negative emotions and trauma, as well as the negative beliefs about ourselves, people, relationships, and the world. Here we will release  the old baggage to allow space for a new empowered you:

  • Release the  unresolved negative emotions & trauma (anger, sadness, fear, guilt, shame, hurt)
  • Change negative beliefs, for example, I am inadequate, relationships are burdensome, people are untrustworthy, to empowering ones

3 – Mastery

This step aims to answer the question – What skills do I need to be skillful  in my relationship?

We will learn and practice the necessary skills to create relational competence to  set you on a trajectory of relational fulfillment even after the completion of couples therapy and marriage counseling:

  • Communication and mutual understanding skills
  • Conflict resolution skills
  • De-escalation skills
  • Intimacy skills

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Frequently Asked Questions

In West Hollywood Couples Therapy Clinic we blend strength-based innovative therapeutic approaches to achieve rapid, profound, and lasting change. Our approach combines cognitive therapy, hypnotherapy, and neurolinguistics (NLP), helping our clients reach their goals in just a few months. Our clients frequently share their satisfaction in our testimonials. Curious? Schedule a free phone consultation and see the difference for yourself.

Many couples come to therapy with the goal of healing and transforming their union. Many of these couples successfully overcome their relational challenges and build the relationship they want. The success of Couples Therapy and Marriage Counseling depends on whether both partners want the relationship to work and are willing to make the necessary effort to heal the relationship and grow as individuals. If the answer is an affirmative “yes”, your relationship stands an excellent chance of healing and becoming the relationship you want it to be.

Dr. Harel developed a cutting-edge 3-step process (ARM) for couples therapy and marriage counseling to help you rapidly and effectively tran

NLP uses language and imagery to access deeper layers of our mind and help us release our unresolved negative emotions, process trauma, and change negative beliefs about ourselves, others, relationships etc.. NLP is a powerful approach to clear our old baggage and empower us to create the love relationship we desire.

Originally, our clinic focused on gay men, same-sex couples, and the LGBTQI+ community. Over time, our success drew a broader clientele and currently, we proudly serve individuals of all backgrounds and couples of all configurations. Our clients include heterosexual (straight) couples, same-sex couples, transgender couples, bi-racial and multicultural couples, and individuals of all genders, sexual orientations, and racial backgrounds. We celebrate diversity. Our commitment is to create a safe space for anyone ready to benefit from our transformative process of healing and growth.

Since the answer to this question depends on your coverage, reach out to your carrier for more information. If you have a plan that accepts out-of-network mental health providers, Dr. Harel will offer you a monthly billing statement for you to directly bill your carrier for partial reimbursement.

On average, couples therapy with Dr. Harel spans about 3 to 4 months of weekly sessions, though the timeline can vary depending on your unique needs and goals. Many couples begin to notice meaningful shifts in their relationship after just 6 to 8 sessions. For individuals, therapy often takes around 2 months.

Your privacy is paramount to us. Everything discussed in our sessions remains confidential, with a few legal exceptions related to safety concerns. More specifically, in case a patient discloses being a danger to self or others, or reports abuse or neglect of a child or an elderly person, confidentiality concerns become secondary, and our priority becomes the patient’s and other people’s safety.

In some cases, Couples Therapy or Marriage Counseling is unlikely to yield the desired results and individual psychotherapy may be a better choice:

  • When one of the partners decides to leave the relationship and is unwilling to do Couples Therapy or Marriage Counseling.
  • When one of the partners in therapy is unwilling to do the necessary work to foster change in the relationship.
  • When the relationship is unsafe due to physical or emotional abuse. Couples Therapy and Marriage Counseling will bring up sensitive and challenging topics in sessions. Lack of basic safety in the relationship will disallow honesty and transparency and may increase the risk of domestic violence. . If one of the partners feels unsafe, establishing safety through removing oneself from an abusive situation is the main priority. Once personal safety is established, individual therapy would be most appropriate to heal the trauma of abuse and establish a sense of normalcy, self-worth, and well-being.

In couples therapy there are sessions in which both partners will attend together. Here we are working to identify the relational patterns and communication barriers that require new skills and change. There will also be individual sessions for each partner. Individual work will happen after the first month of therapy. The focus of individual sessions is on addressing personal “baggage” that interferes with the connection and harmony in the relationship. Just like in a healthy relationship, in couples therapy we will have shared space to address the relationship, and personal space, to address personal growth.

Couples therapy can be beneficial at any stage of a relationship, either to address a problem, or to enhance an area in our relationship. Couples often reach out due to relational crisis, stagnation, or due to a specific concern such as physical intimacy. If you feel disconnected, repeat the same conflicts without resolution, struggle with trust, have difficulty communicating effectively, or simply want to take your relationship to the next level, therapy could be helpful.

The first session is focused on exploration of the current relationship landscape, the story each partner has about the relationship, and the goals each partner has for therapy. Dr. Harel would often ask “Let’s pretend that we have done amazing work together and you got everything you want out of therapy. What does it look like for you?” The first session is an exploration of the relational dynamics and cycles.