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You Can Trust?

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Dr. Harel Papikian

Psychologist, PsyD

Dr. Harel has over 15 years of experience supporting gay men and couples through complex identity and relationship challenges. He is skilled in addressing issues like religious trauma, internalized shame, and societal pressures.

Clients often report improvements within 2–4 months, gaining emotional clarity and practical strategies to navigate daily life.

Benefits Reported by Gay Clients:

  • Felt fully heard,understood and validated
  • Gained comfort in being my authentic self
  • Worked through and resolved past trauma
  • Improved communication and connection in my relationships
  • Established practical strategies for dating and social life

Dr. Harel’s telehealth video-sessions are  easily accessible from anywhere in Los Angeles and California, including West Hollywood, Echo Park, and Downtown LA, and Dr. Harel participates in local Pride and LGBTQ mental health events.

about me

Dr. Harel Papikian

Psychologist, PsyD

Dr. Harel Papikian
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Dr. Harel’s transformative ARM Method for LGBTQ+ Clients

Dr. Harel’s ARM Method—Awareness, Release, Mastery— helps LGBTQI+ people  address unique internal and external challenges related to their identity:

CBT, Mindfulness, NLP and Hypnotherapytechniques are incorporated to alleviate  identity-based anxiety, improve mood, create a healthy sense of self-worth, infuse our life with joy and empower queer professionals to masterfully navigate —]life in a competitive city like Los Angeles.

What to Expect in Gay-Affirming Therapy with Dr. Harel

First Session – Safe, Grounded, and Confidential
Sessions start with a warm welcome. The focus of the first meeting is to draw a map of current challenges and desired outcomes. Dr. Harel will focus on building a therapeutic connection with you and will ask questions to deepen his understanding of your experience. Here the initial map of the therapeutic journey will be drawn through an open conversation and exploration. 

Custom Treatment Plan
Therapeutic journeys are as different as the people who undertake them. Your personal treatment plan will focus on addressing your specific concerns and on helping you achieve your desired results.

Session Frequency & Growth Timeline

What is Gay-Affirming
Therapy and Why Does It Matter?

Gay-affirming therapy is counseling designed for LGBTQ+ clients, recognizing and integrating their identities into healing. Many seek therapy due to social, cultural, religious, or family pressures, which can lead to internalized shame or homophobia. Common challenges include bullying, microaggressions, dating and relationship struggles, career pressures, and feelings of inadequacy. This therapy helps turn these experiences into personal growth, empowerment, and transformation. How it helps:

Understanding Your Experience

Identify how family, cultural, or societal messages influence thoughts, behaviors, and emotions.

Managing Identity-Based Stress

Learn practical strategies for coming out, handling rejection, or navigating workplace and social pressures.

Strengthening Relationships

Develop communication skills, set boundaries, and foster authentic connections.

Integrating Your Sense of Self

Work through past negative emotions and trauma linked to growing up being different, restructure your self perception and step into the full and powerful version of who you truly are.

In Los Angeles places like West Hollywood, Silverlake and Downtown (DTLA) offer ample of gay friendly spaces, however, hookup culture and social isolation can amplify feelings of loneliness and not belonging. . Gay-affirming  therapy is a powerful tool to create connection and wellbeing in the city glitter and dreams.

FAQs About Gay-Affirming Therapy in Los Angeles

A gay-affirming therapy is about supporting you in affirming and integrating your own identity, helping you become the fullest, most brilliant and powerful version of you. Dr. Harel recognizes sexual orientation and gender identity as central to our experience, integrating it into the process of healing and transformation. Is Dr. Harel Experienced with LGBTQI+ Clients? 

Yes. He has extensive experience supporting LGBTQ+ clients, focusing on identity challenges, relationship stress, trauma, and navigating Los Angeles’ cultural pressures. Throughout past years of clinical work Dr. Harel has worked with same-sex male and female couples, trans-couples, as well as cis-individuals in a variety of monogamous and non-monogamous relationships.

Yes. Sessions address communication, trauma, conflict resolution, intimacy, and challenges unique to gay relationships, including coming out differences and external pressures.

Internalized homophobia, family or religious rejection, bullying, dating anxiety, and societal pressures, as well as more traditional definitions of trauma related to experiences of sexual and physical violence and life-threatening events. Dr. Harel uses hypnotherapy as well as cognitive models of trauma work (Cognitive Processing Therapy) to alleviate the post trauma symptoms and restore wellbeing.

Yes. Sessions support reconciling faith with sexual identity, managing guilt, and aligning personal values with authentic self-expression.

Absolutely. Confidentiality is strictly maintained across the board. Anything you disclose in therapy is confidential, which means it will not be shared with anyone else without your written consent. There are few exceptions related to personal safety or safety of other people: If you disclose being a danger to self or others, or, if you report abuse or neglect of a child, an elderly or a disabled person, confidentiality will no longer be a priority and we will have to make sure you and others are safe.

Yes. Therapy addresses pressures from social media, nightlife, and dating apps, teaching strategies to approach dating and relationships confidently.

Fees vary by session type. Contact the office for details and sliding scale or package options.

Many plans cover sessions. Your insurance carrier can provide further clarity.

Yes. Mornings, late evenings and occasionally even weekends are available.

Yes. Dr. Harel creates a safe, structured environment where your identity is respected and growth is practical and measurable. You can start with a complimentary phone consultation – call Dr. Harel and present any questions you might have to assure you are a good fit for each other.

Yes. Therapy explores communication, boundaries, consent, and emotional management in non-monogamous  relational structures, along with other concerns that come up.

Most clients notice meaningful change within 8–10 weekly sessions, including reduced anxiety, improved relationships, and increased confidence in personal and professional life.

Book a free consultation with Dr. Harel