Couples often expect the first stage of romantic love to last a lifetime. Some of us succeed in keeping the flame alive forever. However, the initial euphoric infatuation will have to undergo adjustments to allow space for deeper familiarity and more authentic intimacy in the relationship. Up until now, we...
This is a constructive time in the relationship. Following the fusion of the honeymoon and the storm of the power struggle we emerge with a new awareness of who we are in our union. We are conscious of each other’s strengths and shortcomings. The differences between us highlight our separateness....
Couples reaching the 4th stage of love have been through a great adventure together. They have shared many ups and downs of life, weathered victories, and losses, built a family, and possibly, raised kids together. The middle age is knocking on the door. Many of the familiar roles become secondary....
It is said that only 5% of all couples ever get to this promised land of milk and honey. To reach the stage of mature love the couple had to successfully navigate the stages of conflict, individuation, self-actualization, and recommitment. Mature love is a grand accomplishment in the mastery of...