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Dr. Harel Papikian

Psychologist, PsyD

Dr. Harel is a Licensed Clinical Psychologist and a Master Practitioner of NLP (Neurolinguistics). He established himself as an expert in the field of couples therapy through 15+ years of clinical work with couples, including LGBTQI+, BIPOC and other culturally and ethnically diverse clients. In his Los Angeles clinic Dr. Harel has developed The ARM Method, a cutting edge directive and structured psychotherapy model to effectively guide couples and individuals toward their full potential, empowerment and growth, helping clients transform their relationships.

about me

Dr. Harel Papikian

Psychologist, PsyD

Dr. Harel is truly remarkable! The most productive work I’ve done with any therapist. Grateful for his approach and expertise. So much clarity after each session. Easy to communicate and schedule appointments with. Highly recommend!! Thank you Dr. Harel for everything!
Tetiana Kyryienko
05:37 09 Dec 24
Dr.Harel is the best! I am participating in his Soul to Soulmate program and it’s life changing!!!Thank you so much for all you are doing !!!
Tanya Lishchenko
05:48 03 Nov 24
Dima Korniychuk
22:53 13 Sep 24
I can’t recommend Dr. Harel enough. He made me feel truly heard and understood. He helped me gain new perspectives and make real progress in my personal growth and overall wellbeing. Dr. Harel is compassionate, skilled, and genuinely invested in helping me navigate life’s challenges. Deeply thankful.
guillermo fornillo
05:43 14 Aug 24
The professionalism of Dr. Harel helped me to navigate challenging situations related to myself and my relationship, He made me realized that communication is the key that can open doors of understanding and loveI highly recommend his sessions, pure gold !Thank you so so muchGuillermo
Steven Binns, Jr.
00:20 06 Aug 24
Dr. Harel is an insightful, attentive therapist who has the experience and wisdom to provide exceptional care. Trust, patience and competence are some of the top virtues he possesses. I can say with confidence he is the right therapist for you.
Gilberto Correa
22:09 28 Jul 24
Dr. Harel has really helped me navigate through the “constantly changing waters” of a relationship turning every crisis into a growth opportunity. I am always learning about me, my relationship and my partner. A great psychotherapist and relationship coach which I recommend without hesitation.
David Bagdasaryan
05:22 23 Jul 24
Dr. Harel’s guidance and expertise were exactly what I needed to find healing and growth. For anyone in Los Angeles needing couples therapy or relationship coaching, Dr. Harel is the ideal choice.
irina rudenko
20:37 14 Jul 24
I reached out to Dr. Harel during significant challenges in my life. His support, guidance and skill were what I needed to heal and grow. Anyone who is looking for a couples therapy or relationship coaching in Los Angeles - he is your guy.
Oleksandryna Denysenko
20:37 14 Jul 24
Dr. Harel is an exceptional coach and couple therapist. During our conversations he guided me in developing strategies for progress in both my personal life and my relationships. He met me with empathy and understanding, highlighting areas for improvement and offering processes and tools for me to reach my goals. It has been transformational. He is the best!

Why Choose Dr. Harel for Premarital Counseling in Los Angeles?

Transformative  ARM Method for individual and couples therapy

Deep experience with same-sex, intercultural, interracial and transgender couples

Combines evidence based and cutting edge modalities (CBT, NLP, Hypnotherapy) with emotional depth

Insightful, non-judgmental, inclusive, and highly results-oriented approach

Conveniently located in Santa Monica with online video therapy options available

The ARM Method

Dr. Harel’s Approach to Your Premarital Counseling

  • Awareness

    Here the question is “How did we get to our current situation?” We will discuss the current landscape of the relationship, our treatment goals, as well as personal and relationship history.

  • Release

    Here each partner will have several individual sessions focused on releasing the personal baggage that impacts the relationship. We will address unresolved negative emotions, trauma, and negative beliefs about the self, relationships, people, life, etc.

  • Mastery

    Final therapy stage is focused on learning the necessary relational skills to build the connected and fulfilling relationship. We will master communication, de-escalation, conflict resolution, intimacy and more.

Frequently Asked Questions About Premarital Counseling

Premarital counseling isn’t just for couples in crisis—it can be incredibly enriching for couples who are already happy and committed. By addressing potential issues early, happy couples can avoid pitfalls down the road. It’s a preventative investment—like wellness care for your relationship. Here are some key benefits:

  • Deepen Emotional Connection – explore each other’s inner world – values, fears, hopes, and dreams – for a richer emotional bond.
  • Align Expectations – address unspoken assumptions about marriage, roles, finances, or family. 
  • Build Conflict Resolution Skills – gain tools to navigate future stress or conflict.
  • Create a Shared Vision for the Future – design your life together—discussing goals, values, and what kind of marriage you want to build over time.

The length of premarital counseling naturally varies from couple to couple. For most, dedicating 2 to 4 months of weekly sessions provides a meaningful opportunity to strengthen connection, deepen understanding, and thoughtfully prepare for the journey ahead.

Premarital counseling starts with both partners present, however, as the counseling progresses it may be beneficial to have several individual sessions to work through personal “baggage” to improve the connection and enhance the harmony in the relationship.

Absolutely. You are in charge of your counseling journey and subjects that you bring to the sessions will be the focus of our work together.

Ideally, premarital counseling should begin early in your engagement—once you’ve made the decision to build a life together, but before the pressures of wedding planning fully take over. Starting early allows you the space to thoughtfully explore important topics—communication, values, future goals—without feeling rushed. That said, it’s never too late. Whether you’re a year out or just weeks from your wedding, what matters most is carving out time to invest in your relationship with intention. Think of it as a gift to your future marriage, not just preparation for a wedding day.

Each session is 50 minutes long, offering focused time for meaningful growth and connection. For couples wishing to move more swiftly through the process, extended or twice-weekly sessions are available—providing a flexible, tailored pace to suit your timeline and deepen the work.

Dr. Harel works with his clients via secure and encrypted video-platform. Online therapy allows for convenience and flexibility of scheduling.

Each 50-minute session is $250. For those looking to engage more fully in the process, a 10-session package is available at a reduced rate of $200 per session.

Absolutely. You’re welcome to begin with a single session to get a feel for the process and see if it’s the right fit for you both. Many couples find that even one session offers insight and clarity—and it’s a gentle, low-pressure way to take the first step toward strengthening your relationship.